Cum.
Everyone cums. Or at least I have been lead to believe that women can. There are exceptions to every rule and there are folks out there that don't or can't cum. Like when you have been at the bathhouse for 6 hours and the haze is clearing while some guy who you just noticed vigorously attempts to siphon your eleventeenth load (slang for the entire quantity of semen shot from the body [Example: "Wow Joe, look at that bum shoot his load all over that 24hr Fitness window."]). Hard as the man tries that last load is just not coming.
A true appreciation of cum is in the reception of the load. Giving is easy but taking is judged on a very strict scale. At the bottom we have watching. It can be hot to either watch or be watched during climax. Orgasms are fun, they are designed that way so we will fuck and make babies. Now a Gay man's reasons for sex are slightly different from that but the mechanism is close enough. But plenty of dudes get off on just jerking off with other guys.
Next would be a hand job. Just casually helping a frat brother out with a handful of lotion is perfectly fine. Just make sure he is into it or won't wake up until after your done and gone.
Oral or the spit or swallow dilemma is next. Giving a BJ (blow job for the eunuchs in the group) is a wonderful way of saying hello, hi, how are you, your hot, or I love you. If a BJ is finished with a hand job then you just gave a hand job and you just got sent back two spaces. So if you want to be polite then you let the man cum in your mouth.
Contact with semen in your rectum or mouth can lead to the passing of sexually transmitted disease. I would also shy away from having anyone cum in your eyes or any open wounds. Wrapping your dick is a choice. Be honest and polite to each other regardless of someones personal choice. Now back to cum.
To spit or to swallow? Just do one or the other. Find out what your hook-up wants and make sure to express your wishes as well. If cumming on his feet is going to heighten your sexual experience then do it. If cumming on a burrito and feeding it to your lover is your thing then please eat up. If all you want to do is cum into a condom and flush it away then you are welcome at the table too.
A note on swallowing. Boys, we have all eaten our own cum at one time or another. Even if a guy says he never has, he has. No one's cum tastes good. Men don't produce an array of soda fountain flavors for our cock sucker to choose from. People claim that various fruits and other natural foods can alter the flavor one way or another. Pineapple is a prime example of one of these fruits. There is no real difference. If you don't take m word for it then as yourself this, " Have you ever heard anyone say that the cum in Hawaii is just sweeter?" The truth is that some cum is better than others. Volume and force can vary wildly as well. Some guys just ooze while others are like an angry snake shooting venom.
Lastly, anal. Cum and the ass have a tough relationship. I believe that most men prefer to not use condoms. We have all been inundated with the realities of sex without condoms. Unprotected anal sex is a great way to pass diseases. Again, make your own educated choices.
Cum is the physical manifestation of the male orgasm. When a man ejaculates he is more often than not being swallowed by pure bliss. We associate our sticky white mess with that level of pleasure. I won't get into how cum is a right of passage and how cum has become an object of taboo worship. For now just understand that cum is the clown in the Jack-in-the-Box. It is the prize in the cereal box. It is a warm splash in the face for a job done well.
Next Lesson: Uniforms. Gay life is is full of uniforms and they are for much more than work.
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